Thursday, December 11, 2008

Hi, again!

I know it's been awhile since I've posted and from here on out there will be more regularity.

This, however, will be short.

1.) I forgot my username and password and couldn't log on thereby breaking the ultimate code in start up blogs. I promise to never, ever do that again.

2.) My grandfather died this week so instead of what I really want to post (i.e. recent dating adventures involving me, a BW, and WM,) I am posting something very anti-climactic.

I will address a couple of points/questions that were posted in the comments of my last blog, though.

- I am indeed a Black female. At no point am I attempting to be deceptive and trying to suss out all Black women searching for White men. In other words, I am not a White male in disguise.

- Yes, I did sing the praises of Black men in my last blog because while I choose not to date within my race, I do believe that Black men have a lot to offer. I want the point to be made that I am not a "Black traitor" or that I wish I were White. I don't.

- Not all of my experiences with White males have been terrible. A few of the recent ones have left a sour taste in my mouth but overall I'm not giving up the fight. ;)

So, there you have it. A few responses and a general informational session about me. My hope is that this will be a celebration of interracial relationships (IRs) but from a lesser shown perspective-- that of the Black woman/White male pairing.

Now! Tell me about yourselves.

6 comments:

bwdb said...

Good to see you...And sorry to hear about your grand-dad...May God comfort you and yours..

The Frocker said...

First, I want to offer my condolences to you and your family.

Secondly, I wanted to let you know that I'm looking forward to hearing what you have to say! It sucks that you have barely started blogging and you have already had to defend yourself -- I suppose that was a bit of a harsh welcome to the world of blogging... Regardless, welcome! :)

Anonymous said...

sorry about your grandfather

...take your time, can't wait to read your future posts. maybe you can offer me some tips.

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to you and you family.

NYCentral57 said...

I love the topic. I am a white male who is interested in black woman. It will be nice to hear a black womans point of view on the subject. I am all for WM & BF. Its been a long time coming and I am glad it here. Black woman are beautiful people.

Mark Bradner said...

Hi, I am French, half Jewish half protestant WM.
I moved to north america about 11 yrs ago. As an imigrant, I used to identify myself to imigrants rather than the canadian population.
I dated asian woman, arabic (muslim) women and latinas. However, regarding african women. It was easy for me to approach them or speak with them since I know some swahili and lingala.
However I found out that passion and love depends on the person.
I have never assumed any kind of character from Black people. I found african american born in north america closer to the american dream than imigrants coming with a beautiful package of traditions tied up with strong values showing a rare openness..

I nevertheless had one bad experience when I dated my bestfriend's sister who is gorgeous haitian... She was hot, funny, passionate, intelligent and she had this "je ne sais quoi" that made me fly away just by thinking about her... U know the rest of the story, her brother was devoted at church wanted to punch me accusing me of getting friend with him just to _ _ _ _ his sister.... unfortunately it was wrong, I lost my friendship with him, and got very bitter toward haitian for a while.
I now am married to a beautiful malagasy(african from madagascar) woman and I have 1 child named Maraina.

All white ppl don't see BW as a sex experience.. Sadly I know some stupid libanese who only see them as superficial women trading financial security for sex.

Why do ppl tend to judge others by projecting a seldom bad experience on all those who look alike.
it pisses me off...
I am french, but I am no socialist...
true I love wine and I am educated, but I value personality above apearance. And the more you overcome suffering, stronger you become. BW are an example of beauty beyond the curves and their amazing smile.

Mark III Bradner (a.k. Christophe Bernard)


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